When the pandemic hit, my team and I were hit with a choice: We could leave our jobs to stay and care for our own families and keep them safe. Or, we could rise up and provide a safe space for students to come to school to be cared for and supported in distance learning while their parents worked. These parents are doctors, nurses, working in plants making ventilators, as well as police, fire, and EMS workers. To fight the pandemic, I knew I had to do my job. I had to support these front line workers.
However … I too became a front line worker in my acceptance. As did all of those on my team who stayed. Trust me, many did not. Many left and do not want to come back until things have settled, and I 100% understand that. Everyone has vulnerable people in their family and very valid reasons to stay safe.
But handful of us stayed … why? Because of love.
We love our kids. We love our families. We are an extension of them and we genuinely LOVE that.
Also, let’s be real. We need our income too.
Fast forward. Today is Mother’s Day.
I didn’t expect much. We are on shut down and the kids can’t even shop, right? I made myself blueberry muffins. I planned a dinner I knew sounded yummy. I delivered flowers and chocolate to mine and Mike’s mom. Not a bad day.
Also … not a day of me.
And that is ok in this crazy time. It is just simply what is.
I will play a game with my kids, watch Mother’s Day, have some strawberry shortcake … and all will be rightish.
All I needed today was some quiet time … some time for a nap. No work? No expectations?
And I am about to settle in for a nap. Dinner is prepped. People can cook and eat when ready and all I care about is my comfy pillow and blanket.
And a moment to rest is perfect.
I think right now, that is all any of us can ask for.
Maybe a thank you too … and at least my boys have been raised well enough to do that. Not just on special days like today … but always.